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Argumen perempuan tidak dapat memenangkan
Ketika ia datang untuk memerangi dan tidak setuju dengan laki-laki, perempuan sering membuat kesalahan yang kritis berakhir sampai menyebabkan mereka merasa sakit dan kesepian. Selama percakapan rutin ada perselisihan antara wanita dan suaminya / pacar.
Dijalankan dalam cara yang logis kompeten berbicara dengan dua orang dewasa hanya berbicara tentang masalah atau perselisihan. Kemudian di beberapa titik dalam diskusi yang mendapat wanita itu melukai perasaan dan merespon dalam cara yang emosional. Tiba-tiba seluruh dinamis dari percakapan telah berubah dan orang merasa ia telah betrayed. Sedangkan diskusi adalah logis dan faktual, saya merasa serupa dari pertemuan bisnis di mana setiap orang memiliki satu-satunya tujuan untuk menemukan jawaban atas masalah. Tidak ada satu akan berani menyisipkan perasaan mereka ke dalam diskusi tersebut karena takut mereka akan dilihat telah lemah dan kanannya. Di dunia bisnis, Pelaksanaan tugas adalah tujuan utama, tidak membuat semua orang merasa baik.
Ini adalah bagaimana seorang laki-laki dilihat diskusi yang logis dan faktual. Dia percaya bahwa jika gagasan itu sangat baik maka ia harus dapat membuktikan itu. "Dia ingin membuktikan dia jalur jadi saya akan membuktikan tambang. Mei terbaik manusia menang," adalah bagaimana dia berfikir dan tidak memiliki gagasan bahwa dia hanya ingin didengarkan / dipahami. Ketika perempuan menyisipkan perasaan mereka menjadi sebuah diskusi yang telah menjadi kompetitif, itu membuat orang merasa seolah-olah mereka sedang disalahkan untuk menjadi logis yang menyebabkan mereka ke dalam bereaksi marah. Laki-laki berkata kepada dirinya, "Dia meminta saya untuk membuktikan jalur saya dan saya lakukan ketika dia mendapat perasaan dia terluka!" Dia telah buta sisi oleh satu hal yang membuat dia merasa berdaya, seorang wanita kesakitan.
Orang merasa ditipu oleh hanya untuk bertindak kuat tarik perasaan kartu ketika dia mulai longgar argumen sehingga sekarang ia merasa berhak untuk menghukum dia. Benar-benar adalah cara yang paling laki-laki yang berpikir dalam skenario.
Jika Anda adalah seorang wanita, praktis aturan ketika mendiskusikan topik adalah bahwa jika Anda ingin perdebatan, membuktikan atau bersaing dengan pasangan Anda kemudian peran yang tinggal di sepanjang diskusi. Jika Anda ingin dipahami atau nurtured, lalu berhubungan dengan dia dengan berbagi bagaimana Anda merasa tentang subjek. Jangan beralih untuk menjadi lunak, dan rasa rentan perempuan setelah anda sendiri logis. Semua yang akan lakukan adalah dia tidak mendorong untuk membicarakan hal dengan Anda di masa depan. Dia akan takut Anda berkurang perasaan yang bom.
Sebagian besar waktu saya sarankan Anda memulai halus dengan berbicara kepadanya tentang bagaimana Anda merasa tentang masalah sehingga ia dapat mengenali perasaan yang akan Anda sinyal kepadanya bahwa Anda tidak berusaha menjadi kompetitif. Pada kesempatan anda perlu lakukan untuk membuktikan jalur Anda, Anda pegang tanah tergantung cara Anda merasa. Ingat tidak masalah karena banyak cara yang Anda berhubungan dengan dia, yang paling penting Anda lakukan adalah dapat tidak untuk menggabungkan dua. :)
Rabu, 22 Oktober 2008
Inuyasha
The namesake of the series, Inuyasha is an angsty half demon. The product of a union between his human mother Izayoi and his Demon Lord father Inutaisho*, his father is killed while he is resurrecting and rescuing Izayoi and infant Inuyasha from Setsunano Takemaru. There's very little canon information available that I've seen about Inuyasha's childhood other than the nebulous description of it being "Unpleasant" and that he was shunned by both demons and humans alike. There are apparently portions of the manga that show him and Sesshoumaru growing up together and getting along well, but I haven't seen them. Probably because I haven't read the manga ;;(^o^);;. Anyway, I'll make a trip to the comic shop and fix that soon and let you know what I find.
Fast forward to a grown up Inuyasha. Embittered with the way life's treating him, Inuyasha decides he'll do whatever it takes to become a full-fledged demon. His search for the Shikon Jewel puts him in the path of Kikyo, who rather than kill him, disables him by pinning him to a tree with her arrows. She continues to kill demons that come to the area looking for the Shikon Jewels and Inuyasha hangs around the area and hides in the shrubbery. Kikyo kept talking to him even though he was concealed and eventually they would come to have longer conversations, and later fall in love.
Eventually they decided to use the Shikon Jewel to make Inuyasha fully human and since the jewel would be gone, Kikyo would no longer have to guard it and she'd be free to live with Inuyasha. Having talked it over the two agreed to meet the next day and Kikyo would bring the jewel for Inuyasha.
Unfortunately, a crippled bandit named Onigumo who Kikyo had been caring for was lusted after her and wanted to corrupt her and the jewel. He made a deal with a bunch of demons to give them his body to devour in exchange for a new body with which to corrupt Kikyo and the Jewel. The demons ate his old body and formed themselves into a new one for him. The result was the demon Naraku.
Naraku changed his shape to take the form of Inuyasha and attacked Kikyo. Mortally wounding her, he taunted her by saying it was all an act to get the Shikon Jewel and that he never loved he. He took the Jewel from her and returned it to the shrine before starting the second part of his plan. That taken care of, he then attacked Inuyasha while in the form of Kikyo. Angered, Inuyasha went to the shrine and took the jewel. While he was escaping, the real Kikyo found him and pinned him to a tree with an arrow just before she died.
He stayed pinned to the tree for fifty years, unconscious. Kagome revives him in the first episode to save her from Lady Centipede. After Lady Centipede's defeat the then turns on Kagome to get the Shikon Jewel, but is put under control by a magic rosary that Kaede put around his neck. Whenever Inuyasha acted up, all Kagome has to do is tell him to sit and it plants him face-first onto the ground.
Fast forward to a grown up Inuyasha. Embittered with the way life's treating him, Inuyasha decides he'll do whatever it takes to become a full-fledged demon. His search for the Shikon Jewel puts him in the path of Kikyo, who rather than kill him, disables him by pinning him to a tree with her arrows. She continues to kill demons that come to the area looking for the Shikon Jewels and Inuyasha hangs around the area and hides in the shrubbery. Kikyo kept talking to him even though he was concealed and eventually they would come to have longer conversations, and later fall in love.
Eventually they decided to use the Shikon Jewel to make Inuyasha fully human and since the jewel would be gone, Kikyo would no longer have to guard it and she'd be free to live with Inuyasha. Having talked it over the two agreed to meet the next day and Kikyo would bring the jewel for Inuyasha.
Unfortunately, a crippled bandit named Onigumo who Kikyo had been caring for was lusted after her and wanted to corrupt her and the jewel. He made a deal with a bunch of demons to give them his body to devour in exchange for a new body with which to corrupt Kikyo and the Jewel. The demons ate his old body and formed themselves into a new one for him. The result was the demon Naraku.
Naraku changed his shape to take the form of Inuyasha and attacked Kikyo. Mortally wounding her, he taunted her by saying it was all an act to get the Shikon Jewel and that he never loved he. He took the Jewel from her and returned it to the shrine before starting the second part of his plan. That taken care of, he then attacked Inuyasha while in the form of Kikyo. Angered, Inuyasha went to the shrine and took the jewel. While he was escaping, the real Kikyo found him and pinned him to a tree with an arrow just before she died.
He stayed pinned to the tree for fifty years, unconscious. Kagome revives him in the first episode to save her from Lady Centipede. After Lady Centipede's defeat the then turns on Kagome to get the Shikon Jewel, but is put under control by a magic rosary that Kaede put around his neck. Whenever Inuyasha acted up, all Kagome has to do is tell him to sit and it plants him face-first onto the ground.
Kagome
Kagome Higurashi is a 15 year old student from modern day Japan and the reincarnation of the priestess Kikyo. She lives on the grounds of her family's shrine with her grandfather, mother, little brother, and her cat Buyo. There are also two important landmarks at the shrine which are common to both the present day and the Sengoku period in which most of her adventures take place. The first is the Sacred Tree, which is the same tree Inuyasha was pinned to by Kikyo. The second is The Bone Eater's Well, which Kagome uses to travel back and forth through time.
Kagome is smart, headstrong, and courageous. She is very protective of her traveling companions, and even though not an episode goes by where she doesn't plant him on the ground with a "Sit!", she's especially fond of Inuyasha. In fact, even though he tries to kill her in the first episode, the two quickly develop strong, though dysfunctional feelings for each other.
Kagome starts the series as an average Junior High student heading off to school. She happens across her brother standing at the old wellhouse calling for their cat. Her brother was afraid to go into the creepy old wellhouse, so Kagome went in for him. She quickly encountered the cat Buyo, but moments later the demon Lady Centipede burst though the well cover and drug Kagome into the well. In a moment of panic, Kagome instinctively uses the power of the Shikon Jewel embedded in her to blast of a couple of Lady Centipede's arms and repel her.
That problem solved, Kagome climbs out of the Bone Eater's well to discover that her surroundings have completely changed. She explores a bit and finds an Unconscious Inuyasha pinned to the Sacred Tree, but is soon captured by the local villagers. They at first believe she's a demon, but after questioning, Kiyo's younger sister Kaede takes her in.
During the night, Lady Centipede attacks the village intent on getting Kagome. In order to lure her away from the village Kagome takes off running for the forest. Her cries for help awaken Inuyasha who tries to pull out the arrow that's keeping him trapped, but it's got some sort of magic on it that prevents him from touching it. At first Inuyasha mistakes her for Kikyo, but a few sniffs and angry words late he realizes Kagome is not Kikyo.
About this time Lady Centipede catches up to her and grabs Kagome. Kagome blasts Lady Centipede again and something in the side of her torso starts to glow. Lady Centipede attacks Kagome again, this time sending her flying through the air with a wound in her side. While she's flying through the air the Shikon Jewel comes out of the wound, falls to the ground, and lands next to Kagome. Inuyasha yells for the Shikon Jewel, but Lady Centipede pins Kagome to the Sacred Tree along with Inuyasha with her coils. Using her long tongue, Lady Centipede grabs the Shikon Jewel and swallows it. All her limbs return to her and she transforms into a much, much more powerful demon.
Inuyasha quickly convinces Kagome to free him by pulling the arrow out in order to save them both. Inuyasha quickly destroys her since it's his series and it wouldn't make much sense if they all died in the first episode. Kaede asks her if she can see the glowing Shikon Jewel in the remains of Lady Centipede. She does, they extract it, and the flesh melts away from the chunks of Lady Centipede.
Kagome is smart, headstrong, and courageous. She is very protective of her traveling companions, and even though not an episode goes by where she doesn't plant him on the ground with a "Sit!", she's especially fond of Inuyasha. In fact, even though he tries to kill her in the first episode, the two quickly develop strong, though dysfunctional feelings for each other.
Kagome starts the series as an average Junior High student heading off to school. She happens across her brother standing at the old wellhouse calling for their cat. Her brother was afraid to go into the creepy old wellhouse, so Kagome went in for him. She quickly encountered the cat Buyo, but moments later the demon Lady Centipede burst though the well cover and drug Kagome into the well. In a moment of panic, Kagome instinctively uses the power of the Shikon Jewel embedded in her to blast of a couple of Lady Centipede's arms and repel her.
That problem solved, Kagome climbs out of the Bone Eater's well to discover that her surroundings have completely changed. She explores a bit and finds an Unconscious Inuyasha pinned to the Sacred Tree, but is soon captured by the local villagers. They at first believe she's a demon, but after questioning, Kiyo's younger sister Kaede takes her in.
During the night, Lady Centipede attacks the village intent on getting Kagome. In order to lure her away from the village Kagome takes off running for the forest. Her cries for help awaken Inuyasha who tries to pull out the arrow that's keeping him trapped, but it's got some sort of magic on it that prevents him from touching it. At first Inuyasha mistakes her for Kikyo, but a few sniffs and angry words late he realizes Kagome is not Kikyo.
About this time Lady Centipede catches up to her and grabs Kagome. Kagome blasts Lady Centipede again and something in the side of her torso starts to glow. Lady Centipede attacks Kagome again, this time sending her flying through the air with a wound in her side. While she's flying through the air the Shikon Jewel comes out of the wound, falls to the ground, and lands next to Kagome. Inuyasha yells for the Shikon Jewel, but Lady Centipede pins Kagome to the Sacred Tree along with Inuyasha with her coils. Using her long tongue, Lady Centipede grabs the Shikon Jewel and swallows it. All her limbs return to her and she transforms into a much, much more powerful demon.
Inuyasha quickly convinces Kagome to free him by pulling the arrow out in order to save them both. Inuyasha quickly destroys her since it's his series and it wouldn't make much sense if they all died in the first episode. Kaede asks her if she can see the glowing Shikon Jewel in the remains of Lady Centipede. She does, they extract it, and the flesh melts away from the chunks of Lady Centipede.
Inuyasha - Every Heart lyric
Ikutsu namida o nagashitara
EVERY HEART sunao ni nareru darou
Dare ni omoi o tsutaetara
EVERY HEART kokoro mitasareru no darou
Nagai nagai yoru ni obieteita
Tooi hoshini inotteta
*Meguru meguru toki no naka de
Bokutachi wa ai o sagashiteiru
Tsuyoku tsuyoku naritai kara
Kyou mo takaisora miageteiru
Donna egao ni deaetara
EVERY HEART yume ni fumidasereruyo
Hitowa kanashimi no mukou ni
EVERY HEART shiawase ukabete nemuru
Itsuka itsuka subete no tamashii ga
Yasuraka ni nareru youni
**Meguru meguru toki no naka de
bokutachi wa ikite nanika wo shiru
toki ni warai shugoshi naite
kyou mo mata aruki tsuzukete yuku
osanai kioku no katasumi ni
atataka na basho ga aru SO SWEEET
hoshitachi ga hanasu mirai wa
itsumo kagayaite ita SO SHINE
*repeat
**repeat
EVERY HEART sunao ni nareru darou
Dare ni omoi o tsutaetara
EVERY HEART kokoro mitasareru no darou
Nagai nagai yoru ni obieteita
Tooi hoshini inotteta
*Meguru meguru toki no naka de
Bokutachi wa ai o sagashiteiru
Tsuyoku tsuyoku naritai kara
Kyou mo takaisora miageteiru
Donna egao ni deaetara
EVERY HEART yume ni fumidasereruyo
Hitowa kanashimi no mukou ni
EVERY HEART shiawase ukabete nemuru
Itsuka itsuka subete no tamashii ga
Yasuraka ni nareru youni
**Meguru meguru toki no naka de
bokutachi wa ikite nanika wo shiru
toki ni warai shugoshi naite
kyou mo mata aruki tsuzukete yuku
osanai kioku no katasumi ni
atataka na basho ga aru SO SWEEET
hoshitachi ga hanasu mirai wa
itsumo kagayaite ita SO SHINE
*repeat
**repeat
Inuyasha - My Will lyric
sotto mezameru
hakanai omoi zutto
donna toki demo negau yo
anata ni todoku you ni to...
(I wait for myself and face the day but I held the hope to re-choose something,
I care life, and about the steps cause' my ways looked easy to go)
"ato sukoshi" to yuu kyori ga fumidasenakute
itsumo me no mae wa tozasarete-ita no
aitai aenai hibi wo kasaneru tabi ni
tsuyoi tokimeki wa setsunasa ni naru yo
(No, even I do belive when I see you, having to take my time,
spent some days alone, thinking by myself will be over, so soon.)
moshimo eien to yuu mono ga aru nara
toomawari shite demo shinjite mitai
"bukiyou dakara KIZUtsuku koto mo aru" to
wakatte mo tomaranai mou dare ni mo makenai
anata no koto wo omou
sore dake de namida ga
ima afuredashite kuru yo
hakanai omoi zutto
donna toki demo negau yo
anata ni todoku you ni to...
(I think of you
and that alone is enough
to make the tears start to flow now
I always, always wish
that these fleeting thoughts
would reach you...)
tsuyogaru koto dake shiri-sugite-ita watashi
dakedo ano toki kara mayoi wa kieta yo
(I've known all too well about pretending to be strong.
But since then, my doubts have vanished.)
misetai to omou mono ga kitto atte
kikasetai kotoba mo takusan aru
egao nakigao mo zenbu mite hoshikute
matte-iru watashi wa yamete
"CHANSU" wo tsukamu yo
(There's definitely things I want to show you
And so many words I want to hear
I want to see all sides of you, when you laugh and cry
So I'll stop waiting and seize my "chance.")
anata no koto wo omou
sore dake de kokoro ga
tsuyoku nareru ki ga suru yo
hakanai omoi zutto
donna toki demo negau yo
anata ni todoku you ni to...
(I think of you,
and I feel like that alone is enough
to make my heart grow stronger.
I always, always wish
that these fleeting thoughts
would reach you...)
anata no koto wo omou
sore dake de namida ga
ima afuredashite kuru yo
tookute koe ga todokanai dakedo itsuka wa
kanarazu todoku you ni
shinjite la la la la la la...
shinjite la la la la la la...
shinjite la la la la la la...
(I think of you
and that alone is enough
to make the tears start to flow now
My distant voice can't reach you now, but so that someday
it definitely will...
Believe. la la la la la la...
Believe. la la la la la la...
Believe. la la la la la la...)
hakanai omoi zutto
donna toki demo negau yo
anata ni todoku you ni to...
(I wait for myself and face the day but I held the hope to re-choose something,
I care life, and about the steps cause' my ways looked easy to go)
"ato sukoshi" to yuu kyori ga fumidasenakute
itsumo me no mae wa tozasarete-ita no
aitai aenai hibi wo kasaneru tabi ni
tsuyoi tokimeki wa setsunasa ni naru yo
(No, even I do belive when I see you, having to take my time,
spent some days alone, thinking by myself will be over, so soon.)
moshimo eien to yuu mono ga aru nara
toomawari shite demo shinjite mitai
"bukiyou dakara KIZUtsuku koto mo aru" to
wakatte mo tomaranai mou dare ni mo makenai
anata no koto wo omou
sore dake de namida ga
ima afuredashite kuru yo
hakanai omoi zutto
donna toki demo negau yo
anata ni todoku you ni to...
(I think of you
and that alone is enough
to make the tears start to flow now
I always, always wish
that these fleeting thoughts
would reach you...)
tsuyogaru koto dake shiri-sugite-ita watashi
dakedo ano toki kara mayoi wa kieta yo
(I've known all too well about pretending to be strong.
But since then, my doubts have vanished.)
misetai to omou mono ga kitto atte
kikasetai kotoba mo takusan aru
egao nakigao mo zenbu mite hoshikute
matte-iru watashi wa yamete
"CHANSU" wo tsukamu yo
(There's definitely things I want to show you
And so many words I want to hear
I want to see all sides of you, when you laugh and cry
So I'll stop waiting and seize my "chance.")
anata no koto wo omou
sore dake de kokoro ga
tsuyoku nareru ki ga suru yo
hakanai omoi zutto
donna toki demo negau yo
anata ni todoku you ni to...
(I think of you,
and I feel like that alone is enough
to make my heart grow stronger.
I always, always wish
that these fleeting thoughts
would reach you...)
anata no koto wo omou
sore dake de namida ga
ima afuredashite kuru yo
tookute koe ga todokanai dakedo itsuka wa
kanarazu todoku you ni
shinjite la la la la la la...
shinjite la la la la la la...
shinjite la la la la la la...
(I think of you
and that alone is enough
to make the tears start to flow now
My distant voice can't reach you now, but so that someday
it definitely will...
Believe. la la la la la la...
Believe. la la la la la la...
Believe. la la la la la la...)
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